Monthly Archives: November 2010

30 Nov

Overcoming Loneliness

Childhood decisions about our own worthlessness blind us to our own potentials. They keep us from seeing who we really are and cause us to make decisions that further limit our potential for success and happiness. ...

24 Nov

Overcoming Dyslexia

Rex is going to be just fine, because he is learning how to find and listen to his own inner compass. You can too! ...

23 Nov

Transforming Death into Rebirth

Is your love relationship more like a sprouting flower or a decomposing tree stump? The truth is that it probably has qualities of both. The challenge is, “How do I have more sprouting flowers today in my life?” “How do I have less of a sense of decay, of being cut off from life?” While such visual metaphors give us helpful ways of looking at our lives and our relationships, IDL is about much more than creating helpful images. It...

17 Nov

The Black Hole of Guilt

Sometimes your self-aspects are immature, selfish, controlling, and don’t want to change.  They have run the show for years and aren’t going to go away just because you want them to.  In this example, guilt has controlled and limited this lady’s self-esteem and had a major negative impact on her relationship with her family and lovers over the years. What to do?  If you make an enemy of your resistance you only give it more power.  With IDL you...

15 Nov

Sexual Healing

“I’m a black German Shepherd. I’m inside Laurie. I’m in her sexual organs. I’m running around down here, exciting the sexual energy in her.” This is an excellent example of an interview with a prepersonal self-aspect that does not want to grow up or change. Such self-aspects are needing nurturing structure because they are not mature enough to be empathetic and consider the needs of other aspects of self. ...

10 Nov

Your Life is Guided from Within

Can you trust to let go? Do you feel you have to worry about your finances, relationships, and health? How would your life be different if you we able to stop and trust? ...

02 Nov

Are You a Sex Addict?

As you read Tatayana’s interview with the Serpent that personifies her sexuality, think about your own. How can you use the perspective of this serpent to bring your own sexuality into better balance? ...