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Could a misunderstanding of who you basically are be causing much of the suffering in your life? If you were able to discover a more accurate sense of who you are, what difference would it make? In the case of this lady, it makes the difference between lifelong depression and a joyful life.
Are you afraid of dying? What if you looked your own death in the face? Would the fear kill you or would you learn something? This man did! In fact he received a precious gift from death that life had not previously given him.