Cognitive Distortions, Biases & Fallacies
Problematic thinking—whether in the form of cognitive distortions, biases, or logical fallacies—can block healing, balancing, and transformation. These thought patterns affect emotions, behavior, self-image, and relationships, and they often appear in dreams as recurring themes that reveal unresolved internal conflicts.
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Definition: Habitual patterns of thinking that exaggerate, misinterpret, or filter experiences through emotional lenses.
Examples:
- All-or-nothing thinking: “If I fail, I’m worthless.”
- Catastrophizing: “This mistake will ruin everything.”
- Emotional reasoning: “I feel afraid, so something must be wrong.”
Toxic effects:
- Creates shame, guilt, and low self-esteem.
- Undermines self-regulation and emotional resilience.
- Increases relational conflict and misunderstanding.
Antidotes:
- Identify and label distortions in real-time.
- Reframe thoughts with balanced alternatives.
- Practice mindfulness and IDL interviewing to explore perspectives.
Definition: Systematic errors in perception, memory, or judgment that distort understanding, often unconsciously.
Examples:
- Confirmation bias: Only noticing evidence that supports existing beliefs.
- Negativity bias: Focusing excessively on negative events.
- Sunk cost fallacy: Persisting in decisions because of past investment.
Toxic effects:
- Limits objectivity and problem-solving.
- Reinforces rigid self-concepts and maladaptive behaviors.
- Escalates conflicts in relationships.
Antidotes:
- Seek disconfirming evidence and multiple perspectives.
- Use reflective journaling or IDL interviewing to examine assumptions.
- Apply decision-making frameworks to reduce bias impact.
Definition: Errors in reasoning or argumentation that violate principles of logic.
Examples:
- Ad hominem: Attacking a person instead of addressing the argument.
- Straw man: Misrepresenting an argument to refute it more easily.
- False cause: Assuming causation from correlation.
Toxic effects:
- Blocks accurate understanding and insight.
- Creates conflict and misunderstanding in communication.
- Undermines effective problem-solving and decision-making.
Antidotes:
- Learn to identify common fallacies in oneself and others.
- Practice structured reasoning and argument evaluation.
- Use IDL interviewing to examine assumptions underlying beliefs.

