What is “Dreaming Healthy Families?”
Dreaming Healthy Families is a global research project, with participants in countries around the world. We can change the world, one family at a time, starting with our own and expanding out, throughout our circles of influence. Dreaming Healthy Families is about sharing your night-time dreams with your family and having your children ask one or more character in your dream, like a monster, car, cat, or toothbrush, questions about life issues that matter to you. Your interviewed character will make recommendations about your life issues. Those that sound helpful to you can be tested by putting them into practice in your daily life. Your children can help keep you on track! Participating family members experience being both interviewed and interviewer, gaining insight into their dreams, eliminating nightmares, and re-framing important life issues in ways that heal, balance, and transform lives and families. Interviewing dream characters is a fun process of self-discovery that clarifies misunderstandings, builds relationships, and heals families.
Dreaming Healthy Families is not limited to dreams but also to interviewing the personifications of life issues that matter to you, like a knife-like or burning pain in your back. Why not ask the knife or the fire if they have anything to say? Or perhaps someone is in the “pit of despair” or is imprisoned by an addiction. Why not ask the pit or the cage? If the knife, fire, pit, or cage make recommendations that make sense to you, why not let your family help you make any changes you want to make?
Dreaming Healthy Families is also not limited to members of families of birth, but includes other members of our human family of your choosing – friends, co-workers, or clients. We are one world, one family, and Dreaming Healthy Families moves from self-centric and ethnocentric world views to a worldcentric one, in which we honor and respect others, regardless of where they live, their age, nationality, or belief system.
How did “Dreaming Healthy Families” get started?
Our world is in pain in many ways – from disruptions and degradation of nature to chaos in our communities and nations. The solutions that work best will be authentic, welling up from within us, as if out of a deep inner spring, rather than imposed on us top-down, from the outside. At the same time, our individual paths forward will speak to our collective development as one humanity.
Dreaming Healthy Families thinks of this authentic personal and collective course forward into health and wholeness as our own personal “life compass” that is deeper, stronger, and more authentically ours than our familial, social, religious, and political scripting. While all of these influences are important and valuable, our life compass is more foundational and trustworthy than what we want, and a more trustworthy guide forward than either our conscience and intuition. We can all look back on our lives and see supposed soulmates turned out to be something less and that those wants we were most certain were right and good sometimes turned out to be pastimes, excursions or disasters – not really about who we are and where we are going.
Dreaming Healthy Families is not about dream interpretation or anyone telling you how you should live your life. Instead, it is a powerful, effective, and fun way to help you and your loved ones avoid worry, drama, and unnecessary suffering, while finding your own unique song to sing and to find your own unique dance, and dance your way through life with those you meet.
Who Can Participate?
Dreaming Healthy Families is open to anyone who wants a happier, healthier, more harmonious family. It is not about changing our partners, children, or parents to conform to our expectations, but rather to support them by accepting them for who they are today and helping them find their own unique “next step” that feels right for them, and then providing them with whatever support they request that you can freely offer.
Dreaming Healthy Families is based on the concept of “paying it forward,” meaning that out of gratitude for the help that has been freely given to you, you share what has been helpful with others who might want to enjoy it with their own family. In that way, we help each other live lives directed by our life compass, and as families heal, so do our societies and culture, bringing light and a solid path forward to humanity. A wealth much greater than money is the reward for learning to coach one another and to invite other families to do the same.
If you don’t have a family or are single, or just want to try Dreaming Healthy Families first for yourself, no problem! The process works the same for individuals as for families. However, when you work with others you develop a support system based on mutual respect that will be there for you in the future, whenever you may need it, and you will be able to share your experience and expertise with other families who need help applying the recommendations they receive from their interviews. We are a human family; you do not have to be related to use Dreaming Healthy Families to create your own family of like-minded individuals all over the world.
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