Dealing With Jealousy, Possessiveness, and Fear of Abandonment

“Paul cannot stop himself from thinking about the guys that his girlfriend was with before they met; although they are no longer in her life, the thought of them makes Paul afraid his girlfriend will abandon him for someone else. He cannot stop himself from comparing his attractiveness to that of other guys; when he does he comes up short…”

Sexual Healing

“I’m a black German Shepherd. I’m inside Laurie. I’m in her sexual organs. I’m running around down here, exciting the sexual energy in her.” This is an excellent example of an interview with a prepersonal self-aspect that does not want to grow up or change. Such self-aspects are needing nurturing structure because they are not mature enough to be empathetic and consider the needs of other aspects of self.

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