Escaping Victimization

01 Jan

Getting Your Life Back on Track

I want to share with you a remarkable first interview with a new student of Integral Deep Listening (IDL), who we will call Ted.  The night before our first Skype appointment he asked for a dream that would help him to understand how and why he is so stuck in his life. Here are Ted’s life issues and his dream, followed by his comments about it followed by my translation of the comments of two interviewed dream characters and comments about...

30 Jan

Learning Assertiveness From a Black Hole in Space

A single IDL interview can change a lifelong association of helplessness with fear into something positive and constructive. How would Josefine’s life have been different if she had this interview when she was ten? ...

14 Nov

Dealing With Abuse in Love Relationships

Why do people keep making the same bad choices in relationships? Maybe they are attracted to abusers again and again. Maybe they keep going back into the same abusive situation. Why? ...

13 Nov

Surfing Your Way Out of Fear

We all have things that keep us from surfing through life, but few of us have the excuse of having our arm bitten off by a shark. Would you get back up on your board if that happened to you? ...

20 Oct

The Grim Reaper

Because we rarely or ever ask questions or question our own judgment while we are dreaming, we assume we are awake and dealing with genuine circumstances or threats. The result is that the dream, as remembered, is a narrative that serves to confirm our waking delusions. ...

10 Oct

What If My Life Doesn’t Turn Out Like I Want?

Integral Deep Listening invites you to imagine your catastrophic expectations to surface your fears so that you can listen to them, respect them, and use them as allies in your development. ...

20 Sep

Transformation Using a Fearful, Scripting Childhood Dream

You can change the course of the life of the children you know by interviewing their dream characters using Integral Deep Listening. In addition, any adult can heal from childhood traumas by using IDL to access emerging potentials that heal, balance, and transform. ...