Finding Yourself

09 Oct

Talk at Caen, France, WWII Normandy Memorial

And now for something rather different! On the 14th of this month I will be leaving for Amsterdam where I will be spending three weeks aboard the three-masted schooner Regina Maris teaching conflict resolution and life skills to 34 bright Gymnasium students from all over Germany. I will be leaving the voyage at Tenerife, Canary Islands, on the 8th, and they will continue to the Caribbean for a six-month work-learning program, accompanied by teachers in all their schools subjects. These...

10 Jan

Getting Your Life Back On Track

Most of the time we are doing drama but thinking that we are problem solving or moving toward our goals. What to do? ...

06 Jan

Jungian Psychology and Integral Deep Listening

  Jungian Psychology Integral Deep Listening Therapy is necessary Practitioners do not diagnose or treat; they support access to emerging potentials, the application of their recommendations and teach tools for waking up. The goal of treatment is individuation, the integration of opposites Goal is a life directed by the priorities of life, not God, Self or ego Integration of opposites generates the Self, which is individuation No self; non-dual awareness; identity as a tool of life Synthesis, via the integration of opposites the goal Honoring and balancing of all three...

01 Jan

Getting Your Life Back on Track

I want to share with you a remarkable first interview with a new student of Integral Deep Listening (IDL), who we will call Ted.  The night before our first Skype appointment he asked for a dream that would help him to understand how and why he is so stuck in his life. Here are Ted’s life issues and his dream, followed by his comments about it followed by my translation of the comments of two interviewed dream characters and comments about...

29 Dec

Building Your Dream House

When you combine a clear focus on intention with regular IDL interviewing and application of those recommendations that make sense to you, you will construct your dream house based on a blueprint that uniquely reflects both your needs and your unique gifts to the world. ...

30 Jan

Learning Assertiveness From a Black Hole in Space

A single IDL interview can change a lifelong association of helplessness with fear into something positive and constructive. How would Josefine’s life have been different if she had this interview when she was ten? ...

20 Nov

A Flying Snake Builds Confidence!

How do you build confidence in a teenager to help them stop comparing themselves to others, get over possessiveness, and find themselves? Here is the solution that presented itself for this seventeen year old young man: become a ten meter long flying green snake! ...

03 Nov

Moving Out

“How will I shift into this next stage of my life and find new friends? How will this change my relationship with my family? Should I live at home, like my mother wants, or should I move closer to my school?” ...

10 Oct

What If My Life Doesn’t Turn Out Like I Want?

Integral Deep Listening invites you to imagine your catastrophic expectations to surface your fears so that you can listen to them, respect them, and use them as allies in your development. ...