Dealing with Parents

03 Nov

Moving Out

“How will I shift into this next stage of my life and find new friends? How will this change my relationship with my family? Should I live at home, like my mother wants, or should I move closer to my school?” ...

03 Jul

Ending Self-Criticism

We need to learn is how to discriminate between the helpful, nurturing internal parental voices and those that are destructive. ...

08 Feb

Learning From a Deceased Parent

This is her deceased father’s gift to Maria – the healing of the woundings of old memories and awakening to the potential of a life of inner peace. ...

23 Dec

What Could You Possibly Learn from a Tree Sloth?

This interview shows how Integral Deep Listening can help teenagers find where they can best put their energies so that they can get to the root of their unhappiness and find their inner compass that will direct them to a satisfying life. ...

13 Dec

Aquilam the Eagle Brings Gifts of Confidence and Inner Peace

Kids today have lots of challenges. If we can put them in touch with their inner compass when they are young, we can save them much unnecessary pain as they grow up. In this IDL interview, Okrim accesses his inner potentials in a beautiful, fun, and powerful way. ...

27 Sep

The Devil On Your Shoulder

This is an interview I wish I could do with every child or adolescent.  It is so classic that I think most children can see themselves in it, and most adults as well.  We all have a “devil” sitting on our shoulder telling us we can’t, shouldn’t, or won’t. The beauty of Integral Deep Listening, particularly for a child who is suffering from such self-criticism and fear of failure is that after they have done an interview they have...

18 Aug

Healing a Relationship With a Dead Mother

If you have unfinished business with a deceased parent, what can you do? How does that wound affect who you are today? How does it limit your options? What can you do to heal it? Your dreams regularly comment on how long forgotten early family relationships shape how you view yourself and others today. If you listen to them, as this lady is doing, you will take a short cut to finding yourself, as opposed to the social...